Sunday, February 6, 2011

Discovering My Ancestry

Living in the city of my husband's family, I took on the identity of his culture, faith and of course sir name. The children were mostly compared to members of his family and still are recognized by their Dutch heritage. I have grown to love so much of what I know about the CRC (Dutch) faith and really thank God for bringing me to knowledge by faithful preaching and personal study of the Bible. We visited the Netherlands almost eleven years ago to look up his roots and even have a book on the family ancestry that goes back to the 1500s, albeit written in Dutch.

My daughter in law recently asked me if I was going to post the pictures from our trip to Nova Scotia, Canada, the birthplace of both of my parents. It was last September that we made the trip to Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia and searched cemeteries and visited with people who would have known my parents and grandparents. For me, it was such joy to remember that I am really not Dutch and have a heritage to be proud, although not all the ancestors rose to prominence, some were even notorious.

This is the land, awesomely beautiful, if you want to visit, look up The Cabot Trail. When I look at this picture I remember why my parents loved it so much. I visited 3 times as a child, the last time as a junior in high school, 48 years ago. Oh, I'm practically telling you my age.
Our first stop was Halifax, I had never been there before. It is a small town for the capital of the province but a wonderful waterfront (lots of international seafaring commerce) and well known Maritime Museum of the Atlantic. I must publish what happened to the pirates of long ago, they would be hung in cages after death along the sea shore to warn other would be pirates. It is a piece of family history that we had a pirate in the family that mercifully "walked the plank" off the coast of Barbados.

We had expected a beautiful color tour at this time of year but it was really green and I must say we had some cloudy and cold rainy days. After leaving Halifax we drove across the Canso Causeway, a road built from the mainland to the island of Cape Breton, my last crossing was with my brother, mother and father who have all died, a feeling of sadness came over me. Our first stop was the town of Baddeck that houses the Alexander Graham Bell Museum, he was a friend of my grandfather Burke. We stayed at a great inn, visited the Gaelic College and an evening at the "ceilidk", a Gaelic word meaning visit or gathering of music and dance. The evening was spent listening to "down east" fiddle music that played in our home when I was a child. I loved every note, every step of the Irish jig.

We were eager to move on and drove to Englishtown. The photo is the ferry once owned and managed by my great grandfather, Torquill MacLean. He ran the ferry for 50 years, first rowing across with carriages and the horse swimming behind the boat. This ferry is named after him who was respected and loved for his dedicated service.


We visited the cemetery and took pictures of the grave stones of my grandmother's parents and siblings before we happened upon a woman that gave me the greatest gift.



Katherine is a life long resident of Englishtown who assisted Bonnie Thornhill in bringing to publication "The Road to Englishtown" a history and genealogical sketches of Englishtown, Victoria County Nova Scotia. I was amazed that anyone would take the time and effort to prepare such a book. This book contains the ancestry on both sides of my mother's family. She invited us in as we stepped on her porch unannounced and spent over an hour discussing names of people I barely remembered of my parent's family and friends. She even knew my father's family from Ingonish!

Next we visited two women, Marie and Dot who are relatives of my mother's cousin's wife. Surely we would enjoy a cup of tea but we didn't expect a wonderful meal! That is the hospitality of Cape Breton!

We traveled the Cabot Trail along the northern French coast and then to the south when the sun came out at Neil's Harbor.



The wonderful scent of the sea and pictures of fishing boats led us to the restaurant for seafood chowder and crab meat sandwiches. But can't stay long, its on to Ingonish.



This is my father's home town. His father was the businessman in town and actually had a thermometer and medical book so was also known as "doc". The beach has not changed but my father's childhood home is gone and his brother's old Victorian tourist home now looks modern, with the large porch missing and the spruces cut down. The pier was busy years ago with fishermen cleaning their catch and now all is quiet.

The island behind me in the picture was once known as Burke Island and was used to pasture sheep. My dad told me how he loved to ride his horse bareback in the ocean and of course walked miles to school in the very deep snow. I think life was a little easier for my mother in Englishtown for I don't remember her complaining about the snow.
This next picture is the Keltic Lodge that was once a private home. It is now a beautiful and expensive golf resort. Along with the Cabot Trail it is one of the reasons people know of Ingonish.


Before leaving Ingonish we visited with a family who knew the Burke's and then searched through the cemeteries for family gravestones. Then on to Sydney, a city where my mother wanted me to attend nursing school. I think she was looking for an excuse to visit her homeland. We returned to Halifax and dined out with newly discovered cousin, Mary and her husband, Donald. I had also talked to her sister and brother when we stayed in Sydney. This was a wonderful trip! Now is the task of piecing all the information together along with the Dutch side and making an interesting family history for our sons and their families.

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Holidays


Well, for those who know me, I am a true believer in celebrating Christmas, as the birth of Jesus Christ! But, since I have been an absent blogger, I am adding Thanksgiving pictures to our two Christmas celebrations, so the title "Holidays."

Chris, Kim, Jack and Natalie stayed with us for Thanksgiving and we had a wonderful meal with Kim's family. Of course Conley came often to play with Jack and a tractor ride is always on Jack's mind.

We got a couple great family pictures, and Natalie is in both families! She's just such a magnet! After all, it was Natalie's first time to celebrate Uncle Mike and Aunt Joy's birthdays.



A visit to Colorado is always full of adventure. After a challenging ride over Rabbit Ears Pass we arrived safely to Dan and Angie's Christmas house. The first evening, all the children helped with the gingerbread house. The finished product is seen above.

The next day was sliding in a neighborhood, and a living nativity.





I was surprised when I took a solo ride on the saucer, picked up speed and did an airborne flip landing on my head. I really need to learn to act my age!
After church on Sunday and nap time, we opened gifts and enjoyed a wonderful dinner.
The children are all dressed up for a Christmas party at daddy's work.





After a dance performance by Claire and her dance class and as guest reader at Hudson and Claire's pre-school, we traveled back to Michigan.

It's Christmas! Mike and Chris and their families joined us on Christmas morning for breakfast and opening gifts. So where are all my pictures? Maybe it was caused by the medication fog I was in for my root canal problems. Well, its all about the children who are our great joy givers! Happy 2011, my blog viewers!



Friday, November 5, 2010

October, it's not over until it's over.

Well my last post was about the month of October. I guess I was thinking I would just wait out the next few days until November appeared on the calendar. I was wrong, you know it's hard to have a son, daughter-in-law and four grandchildren far away in CO. I can only stay away so long, then I yearn to be with them.

Hudson and daddy go to an hour class on hitting, throwing, catching and soccer ball kicking. Hudson did great in all areas, he's pretty coordinated for a 4 year old.


There is also a lot happening back at the "playground" as Claire's friend calls her backyard. Claire is busy making a cake to serve with sweet tea.

Tucker is a true rugged cowboy, he takes his shirt off to enjoy the sun and play in the snow.

Cooper is pretty good at riding his tricycle that seems to steer quickly towards the mud. But we any always count on that smile!

Halloween began with a church service. When we got home Em and G fixed a wonderful chicken dinner and set a festive table, even a monster cake.


The big event of the day is the Halloween Stroll on main street downtown.

It seems the whole town turns out, adults, children and dogs dress up to celebrate.


Angie isn't so happy with this picture but I like that it captures the moment, the children all enjoying their treats

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

October


I can't believe this beautiful month is almost past. We have been blessed with warm, sunny cloudless days for nearly the entire month. Today is a mixed bag of weather. Earlier today it rained and I was in the basement due to a tornado warning and a watch is on until 6PM. The wind is blowing the last of the leaves off the trees and the dark sky is lit by brief moments of sunshine. Last week we moved the patio furniture and cleaned out some of the annuals to prepare for winter. I want to hang on.... I feel a sense of sadness during these dwindling days of autumn.

Yet, this was a month of celebration! Starting with Conley's 4th birthday. She celebrated for a week with her family. These are pictures of her princess luncheon.



We also celebrated time together with new found cousins from Nova Scotia who came to visit our known cousins in Kalamazoo. In this picture, Dolly who is my mother's 1st cousin at 92, is enjoying the visit with her daughters, their husbands, great grandchildren and cousins from Holland, MI and Nova Scotia.


It was on one of those beautiful Saturday's when we went to the orchard to pick up some cider and donuts. Yum! Conley and Tom pose in front of the big pumpkin and they look a bit lonely. Last year Conley was here with her Aunt Angie and Uncle Dan and cousins, Hudson, Claire, Cooper and Tucker.

I couldn't wait to give my sister her Christmas Present! So to celebrate genealogy weekend I gave her the book, "The Road to Englishtown," that contains the genealogy of our mother's side of the family. We read our books together and scoured over old pictures. We also visited with our brother, Gordon to hear his stories of his visits with our grandparents, we never knew.

This past weekend we traveled to Wheaton, IL to watch Jack and Natalie while Kim and Chris celebrated 6 years of marriage. Conley came along to play with Jack and be a "big sister" to Jack and Natalie. She was a big help to grandma and grandpa! We sure did get a big smiling greeting from Jack! There is nothing like a grandchild to make one feel important.

Natalie is an easy going baby who loves to lay on a blanket and roll to her toys and watch her brother and cousin. She also spent some time sitting up in the saucer while they danced around her.

So this is October 2010, and a beautiful one it was, praise the Lord! This is a picture from our woods earlier today. I suspect after another day of high winds, the leaves will be a golden path in the woods.

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Surprise Visits

A few weeks ago, our son Chris flew to Japan for work so Kim decided to pack up Jack and Natalie and come home for a few days. It was fun and unexpected to see them. I loved having them for lunch and invited Joy and Conley to join us.

Jack wasn't interested in getting into the tractor, a few weeks ago, but when Conley got in with grandpa, Jack wasn't far behind.


Well, it's not a trip to grandma & grandpa's house without a ride on the "scooter, Conley shows Jack what a girl carries in her purse.

Natalie was glad to get out of her infant seat and stretch her legs on a blanket that I laid on when I was her age!


So the next surprise visit was the one we took to Wheaton when Tom's passport didn't clear the airport scanner. This was pretty frustrating but there is nothing like the cute faces of grandchildren to make you smile and feel better.