Natalie's Baptism

Natalie's baptism was planned for Father's Day several weeks ago.

Her great-grandparents, and grandparents, aunts, uncle and cousin all set the date on their calendars to attend. Great-grandparents traveled all the way from Colorado to be present at the blessed event. You can only imagine the disappointment when Chris and Kim were informed, the afternoon before, that the service is canceled due to no electrical power in the church.

Kim called her pastor to ask if he would consider performing the baptism without the usual congregational service. He was absolutely willing! Natalie's baptismal service was private, precious and memorable. Jack even had a part when the pastor asked him what he was sprinkling on Natalie's head.

Great-grandpa and Jack explore the baptismal fount.

It was a beautiful and joyous day.

Being Father's Day made it really special for Chris, holding his new daughter and promising to teach her about Jesus' love.

As grandparents, we too, were reminded of God's covenant blessing to generations of believers. Natalie has many generations of relatives that loved the Lord, and grandparents that love her and will pray for her always.


For Jack it was a day about "water". First the symbolism of the washing away of sins and the afternoon of water's cooling pleasure. He and "Monley" entertained each other for hours!

Conley's Wedding Invitation

Tom and Conley have been having coffee at the local McDonald's with 7-15 elderly gentlemen since Conley was 7 months old. Conley's mom has yoga class so she drops Conley off with Tom for a couple hours. Conley knows all the "boys" by their first names and they all look out for her. Some days she comes home with coins in her purse and some days she even has a dollar. A few weeks ago we received a wedding invitation, from one of the men, on the inside envelope was written, "Tom and spouse and special granddaughter". We were eager to show Conley the envelope with the words written on them and thought she would be delighted. I guess there was something lost in translation when she told us with tears, "I don't want to be a special granddaughter, I want to be a princess."

As the days went by, she became more excited about attending the wedding and her Aunt Di bought her a beautiful dress to wear. When the day came, she couldn't wait to put on her princess dress.

Since Conley was feeling pretty, it was a good time for mommy and daddy to get a photo op.

Conley promised the groom a dance but she wasn't so interested on the wedding day. She did let the bride hold her for this photo.

Conley only had grandma on her dance card until she met Katy, the granddaughter of the groom.

Remembrance

Yesterday, Tom, Mike, Joy, Conley and I went out for breakfast and watched the Memorial Day parade. Since our sons were young, the parade seems to be smaller and not as well attended and yet it still honors those who have fought for our freedom.



The parade began with Marines carrying the flag followed by a few cars and floats carrying our military veterans or those mothers who lost sons or daughters in the wars. The high school bands played patriotic songs and several military vehicles were driven along with the local fire department, ambulance services and police department vehicles. Conley liked the mounted sheriff department officers on well groomed horses. It was a parade of celebration for the sacrifices of our military that gives us peace in our homeland.

When along comes a group of women dressed in black and carrying anti-war signs. They are mourners for those who have lost their lives in war, both the soldiers and civilians. It was disturbing to me, that a parade meant to honor and memorialize our soldiers for their sacrifice and service ended with this dark cloud. It didn't seem appropriate for this group to be marching in this parade. I respect their right to protest, they have a forum and I have seen them on busy intersections silently protesting.

Yet, it is because of what our country stands for and the freedoms we enjoy and the wars that were fought to protect the freedom of expression and speech that they could walk down the street and have their protest seen. I guess it is similar to those who show up at a soldier's funeral protesting his life and service. In my opinion, showing bad manners and insensitivity to those who have lost their loved ones for the sake of their country. Maybe its because of the great divide in our country today or because we have become intolerant and insensitive to each others beliefs that I had a feeling of discouragement and disappointment at how the parade ended.

I love the United States of America, my homeland. My parents immigrated here in the 20s, I had two brothers who served in the US Navy, one during the Korean War and the other served for nearly 30 years during the Vietnam War and the 1st Iraq War. Some would say and do say that the USA has lost its status in the world, we are hated. I have two sisters-in-law that have immigrated to the USA and when one was divorced and the other one lost her husband to cancer, neither left to go back to the home of their birth. We are still the hope of many. Two weeks ago I attended a naturalization ceremony and 81 people from 36 countries became American citizens! This was in a medium size town in the mid-west, only a small representation of the thousands who seek legal citizenship every year.

Let the unpatriotic denigrate the USA, they have the freedom to do it. I thank God for the USA, the land of the free and the home of the brave.

GOD BLESS AMERICA!